

Nonetheless, each relationship makes you better as it is merely a lesson in one chapter of your life. Instead of seeing only the negative aspect, try finding the good things that you learned from that person, or what you learned about yourself. There are pros and cons to every relationship and much to be learned as well. Evaluateįind the takeaways from ending a relationship. Weighing the pros and cons can help pinpoint lessons learned 3. When you boss up that means your focus is your bag, and when your bag is secured so is your independence!

It will also keep you clear from depression and thinking of your ex non-stop. Focusing on your dream, job, career, or dream job will make the time pass quicker, ease your mind, and lift your spirits. Keeping yourself busy is by far one of the best things you can do to move forward when you end a relationship. That’s another level of maturity, but in time we all ultimately just want to be happy. Jhene Aiko has a song called Pray For You that’s very becoming as she talks about praying for her ex to getting everything she couldn’t give to him. And if you’re really mature, pray for your ex. A failed relationship can take a lot out of you, so you want to ask to be replenished with all the nutrients necessary for you to go on with life. Prayįor yourself, your health, your peace, and your sanity. Always remember, never a loss, always a lesson. But one thing to keep in mind, just because a relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean you are damaged goods or a loser. And people cope in different ways, here are some fun and self-care options to get over a bad breakup. Let’s be honest, breaking up can be brutal, not only to the heart but the mind and the body.
